UP TO THIS POINT

As most of you probably already know, we have been trying to expand our family since 1998. After a number of surgeries, and 3 failed attempts at IVF, we were emotionally, physically & financially drained. We decided, for both our sakes, to close the door on that chapter. However, they say when one door closes, another is opened . . . it opened the door to adoption.

After much research, we decided to go forward with International adoption. After thoroughly investigating agencies, we chose to use Florida Home Studies & Adoption. The beginning of July '05' we attended an adoption seminar hosted by the agency. After learning about all the different programs available, our hearts were drawn toward Taiwan.

The intense "paper chase" has begun! It is unbelievable how many forms, leagal/medical, financial, references, certified copies, etc. we needed to gather, track down & request. We had to have a Home Study completed, extensive background check, fingerprinting in Tampa at the US Citizenship & Immigration Services, Passports, etc. It all seems very overwhelming, however we seemed to get through it in good time.

The program we are participating in, the birth mothers participates in the selection of the forever family. We had to compile a photo book of our life along with a letter to the birth mother. The orphanage our agency uses is Cathwel, located in Taipei, Taiwan. All our information was sent and accepted as of September 4, 2005. Now we wait, and wait, and wait, and wait, and wait(learning patience) for the referral of our daughter.

The waiting isn't getting any easier . . . it is sooooooooo hard. We have to be getting closer, we have 7 (long)months behind us, so hopefully April will bring us some good news???!!
To be continued...........